Truth hurts

Is it really comfortable or is it a denial.

Been thinking of these lately. Recently.

Despite of everyone (not literally everyone, but everyone here is people around me. close to me) been asking on questions of "kamu bila lagi?" "mak doakan dicepatkan jodoh" "bile nak bagi kad kawin" "adik nak tunang, kamu bila pulak?" and i will always reply,"mestilah nak kawin, mana jodohnya?" "meh la kenalkan sesapa.." "takkan nak kutip jodoh tu tepi jalan atau pilih kat kedai?".

There are times which I've been doing the thinking of do I really want to get married? Do I really really trully want to? now? For what sake? For whose sake? My Mak? My Ayah? or everyone yang tanya? or wasn't it suppose to be for myself? I'm at the age of good to be married. But then again, I am at the age of good to be married. That does not justify of why should I get married now. I really do think that I'm still a child. Not matured enough. This matured here define so many things for me.

Preparing for marriage seems so dreamy, so pretty, so happy. Pretty bridal cloths. Pretty make-up.Nice pictures and happy faces during the ceremony. Its something really really seductive. To have it as your own. But then, the after-math is much more important.  After-math of the ceremony.

Am I really matured enough?

1) Matured to be accepting someone new to be part of my whole life
2) Matured to be accepting things which does not qualify to my expectation
3) Matured to be accepting others (new family) to be part of my whole life
4) Matured enough to handle all marriage problem
5) Matured enough to have children
6) Matured enough to learn how harsh or shit married life can be

Married life never seen so easy for me. Read the word of seen there. I've normally see a broken married life. From my own family, immediate families and let along the others.

Even it started off with a dreamy loving couple, or it started off with your first love, I've seen and heard of more broken compared to the happy ones. "One or two does not justify how married life can be. Everyone have their own story to tell". Not denying that. Its just seem a bit scary over the time. The commitment it holds. The commitment we have to hold. Both individuals.

"As days is not only filled with rainbows, there are more days which we have storm, rain and drought over our calendar. That is how married life will be. Not only married, even now that is how our life runs. "

But another question here, Am i ready? Do I have high expectations? of myself? or to my future partner?

Never been into any serious romantic relationship in my 29 years of life. Only crushes to ones who doesn't even know me. So, that does not count as experience. So, at this age, next question come along, does that matters? Do that really give impact to what I'm experiencing now? As we ever involved in any romantic relationship gave us the confidence of getting into more serious one, the last longer ones?


Afraid of broken marriage, which then leads to broken family.

Nufab : 29/10/2019

Trip to Seoul,Korea 2019 with #einteringinseoulagain

Bila last post kat sini? Kalau debu tu boleh ukur, fuhh.. memang tebal gilos.. pasti..

So get back to the purpose of updating, this one as a log i say. To remember, on the tips and tricks to travel, (in case datang lagi di masa akan datang) here again. #einteringin was once used in year 2017. That was the first time i jejak my foot there. Seoul. and this year, once again #einteringin used, however with betterment which is #einteringinseoulagain.

Ok. Jom?

In travelling normally ade 2 benda penting yang people normally wanna know.

Satu - THE BUDGET.
Dua - THE ITINERARY.

Benda-benda yang I will jot down as details as possible. I know ramai je yang memang dah share on the tips and tricks travel to Seoul ni. Oh well, hey, travel never gets old. Masih ramai lagi yang belum jejak tanah 'winter sonata' dan maybe masih ramai yang nak search about it kan.

So untuk perkara SATU;

Trip kali ni was with my familia. Ayah, Abang, Alan Alin the twin and ME (of course!). Jadi kami ada total 5 orang semua sekali.

Flight ticket 100% on Ayah as he decided to belanja on that. Our trip was on 30th April 2019 sampai 6th May 2019. it was a 7 days 6 nights punya journey.

Flight ticket kitorang beli masa ade Air Asia sale on OCT 2018. Around 6 bulan sebelum trip la kiranya. Untuk 5 orang termasuk makan and luggage dan insurance (Luggage -- pergi 20KG / balik 30KG -- under seorang sahaja punya nama to save the budget) we manage to secure harga total RM4470.00. Kira kalau devided by pax around RM940 return ticket untuk setiap orang which for me kira murah jugaklah.

(Flight details)

As for our budget;

This is the initial plan of our budget. Setiap orang contribute RM2,500 which this one includes the shopping budget which is RM1,000 per pax. So untuk total kitorng ade RM12,500 untuk trip ni.

But by the end of our trip our Korean Won masih berbaki banyak and after changing it back to Malaysian Ringgit we have manage to save around RM450 each. Maknanya, our total budget is on at RM2,000 per pax. Jadi, if includes flight, RM2,940 all-in.

Benda ni jadi sebab the shopping part which highlighted in YELLOW was a variable one. Where as the ones highlighted in GREEN is the fixed ones. Since I am the only girl in the group and talking about Seoul, so i think I'm the only one yang memang shopping extra sikit compare to my siblings la kan. Diorang more to beli simple souvenirs while me? I bought quite a few of beauty products (HHAHAHAHA -- terpengaruh harga murah sikit dari M'sia)

As you can see, dalam budget tu banyak KLOOK di situ. ini sharing tak berbayar yer, tapi i memang rasa KLOOK saves up my money for this trip. Very convenient and hassle-free punya apps. They even cater for few countries. So, kalau nak check it out, can try to Google it up, or kalau malas, ok.. I put the link here -- https://www.klook.com/en-MY/

Yup! This time punya trip, the itinerary was all done by me. I decide the day to go to all the places and how to go there and etc. This trip memang tak pakai tour guide. Everything was done all by myself. From booking the hotel until topup-kan all their T-money dekat train station. Basically, jadi tourist to my own family la. Sebab I was there once, so this time around I challenged myself to do it alone. 

Studying the train station punya laluan adalah sangat penting yer adik-adik sekalian. Since kita memang akan guna public transportation all days, everydays. 

So, for this time around, this will be enough. Akan update lagi untuk details lain and break down of the itinerary for all 7 days.